Is is not fair that you don't love the person who actually loves u...but u run for those who have absolutely no feelings for u...We can do anything to get him/her, but miss the opportunity of seeing what is right near us, what might be meant for us.. The first thing which normally people see in another person is his/her appearance and beauty..baad me inner qualities ka number aata hai...For that matter, even I fall in the same category to be very frank. But I keep on asking this question and never get a direct answer. Also we know that looks can be deceptive...but we kind of ignore this universal truth as well & go deaf n dumb in love..not even knowing if he is THE ONE for me or not !!
For some people, love never existed in total as they have already considered themselves as "not-so-beautiful" or "ugly" and never looked for a person because they think low about themselves. If you do not love yourself, how can others possibly love you? How can you get the 1 for yourself when you yourself do not know who you are and what are you capable of...Some of my friends tells me that I am not worthy of 'that guy' or I am just not as beautiful as the other nice looking girls or someone has even mentioned that I am not intelligent as others and guys will shoo me off...All Crap..!! Why do we bother so much..or if at all it is so, why can't we do something to overcome it and be happy? But we can do neither this nor that..silly huh! You gotto give a chance for the other one to appreciate you and find something which you also never knew about yourself maybe...who knows. Stop expecting love from anyone will not stop the feeling or dreaming of being in love with a nice girl/man, you cannot let die your whims and fancies.
The other category of people are even more funny, who consider love as mere Time Pass (TP- in short). These category of people are day-by-day increasing so much that very less number actually knows what is true love all about. All the daily soaps, TV, media has impacted a lot on such people to the extent that they are even ready to lose their virginity just for fun and getting some good memories. What memories do u get in such things where your self dignity is obnoxious and questioned by society? We tend to forget that we live in a society which is still not that open to accept such rapid changes in the youth. Western culture is way too different than ours and making it a hybrid kind of a culture will take our Indian culture to a slow demise! TP-baazi is ok till the extent you do not cross certain limits and you call it as an experiment or what not. I'm not saying that such things are not good at all, but not at the cost of someone's self respect and loosing control over yourself.
And some crazy people fall into the strangest category where they have found their true love but do not realise it and let go so easily that you just cannot make it up again forever. Just because of some small misconception it triggers to a massive fire that cannot be stopped by anyone. There is no meaning of love if we cannot trust the other one and make such things happen. This is what scares people most even those who have never experienced love. I have found out that most of the singles have a fear of break-ups! And so they cannot risk their life for this and finds a safe passage of not loving or being loved by someone. Some people have a fear of attachment and feel the other person will just go and never come back again which may ruin his/her life forever..If you are in love, bear the risk and be strong to face any consequences that can happen in future, why do we worry of something that has never happened and might not happen at all which may cause severe mental and physical pains.
In a nutshell....we always have to lose something to gain something as nothing in this world comes for free..!!! Just need to know yourself even better, accept our faults and let time decide what is good or not..we just have to take care of today and that is why it is called A PRESENT..!! :)
For some people, love never existed in total as they have already considered themselves as "not-so-beautiful" or "ugly" and never looked for a person because they think low about themselves. If you do not love yourself, how can others possibly love you? How can you get the 1 for yourself when you yourself do not know who you are and what are you capable of...Some of my friends tells me that I am not worthy of 'that guy' or I am just not as beautiful as the other nice looking girls or someone has even mentioned that I am not intelligent as others and guys will shoo me off...All Crap..!! Why do we bother so much..or if at all it is so, why can't we do something to overcome it and be happy? But we can do neither this nor that..silly huh! You gotto give a chance for the other one to appreciate you and find something which you also never knew about yourself maybe...who knows. Stop expecting love from anyone will not stop the feeling or dreaming of being in love with a nice girl/man, you cannot let die your whims and fancies.
The other category of people are even more funny, who consider love as mere Time Pass (TP- in short). These category of people are day-by-day increasing so much that very less number actually knows what is true love all about. All the daily soaps, TV, media has impacted a lot on such people to the extent that they are even ready to lose their virginity just for fun and getting some good memories. What memories do u get in such things where your self dignity is obnoxious and questioned by society? We tend to forget that we live in a society which is still not that open to accept such rapid changes in the youth. Western culture is way too different than ours and making it a hybrid kind of a culture will take our Indian culture to a slow demise! TP-baazi is ok till the extent you do not cross certain limits and you call it as an experiment or what not. I'm not saying that such things are not good at all, but not at the cost of someone's self respect and loosing control over yourself.
And some crazy people fall into the strangest category where they have found their true love but do not realise it and let go so easily that you just cannot make it up again forever. Just because of some small misconception it triggers to a massive fire that cannot be stopped by anyone. There is no meaning of love if we cannot trust the other one and make such things happen. This is what scares people most even those who have never experienced love. I have found out that most of the singles have a fear of break-ups! And so they cannot risk their life for this and finds a safe passage of not loving or being loved by someone. Some people have a fear of attachment and feel the other person will just go and never come back again which may ruin his/her life forever..If you are in love, bear the risk and be strong to face any consequences that can happen in future, why do we worry of something that has never happened and might not happen at all which may cause severe mental and physical pains.
In a nutshell....we always have to lose something to gain something as nothing in this world comes for free..!!! Just need to know yourself even better, accept our faults and let time decide what is good or not..we just have to take care of today and that is why it is called A PRESENT..!! :)
